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  • Mindful or Mind FULL?

    Posted by krumike on March 24, 2021 at 7:54 am

    What’s the difference? Mind FULL is messy, sad, overwhelming, unproductive, not good. Mindful on the other hand is calm, feels nice, and brings a sense of awareness. Mind FULL is future focused whereas being mindful is ‘now’ focused.
    So how can we go from our minds being full of anxiety, fear, and desperation to our minds being chill, clear, and more optimistic about our future possibilities? Let’s look at 6 helpful steps:

    Start when it’s easy. Many people get interested in mindfulness as a way to deal with stress or difficult situations, and this is a great idea. However, trying to be mindful for the first time in the middle of a crisis is a lot like trying to score the game-winning goal when you’ve never gone to a single practice. Don’t make it harder for yourself! Start with the pleasant moments, and you’ll be ready to deal with life’s challenges when they come your way.

    Pay attention to something you do every day. A great way to start is to pick one or two activities you do every day – such as brushing your teeth, riding the bus to work, or reading a book to your children at bedtime – and get in the habit of paying attention to what you’re doing. Your mind will wander, possibly within a few seconds, but don’t sweat it. Just bring your attention back to your teeth or the book.

    Approach situations with curiosity. If you’re not sure how to respond to a situation, or if you’re feeling frustrated in ways that aren’t helpful, try getting curious about what is happening instead. You can’t be angry and interested at the same time. It just doesn’t work that way. Not only will your curiosity help you get out of a difficult headspace, but it will likely help you gain a little more clarity so you can make the most informed choice about how to move forward.

    Remember the four T’s. Those stand for: transitions, teatime, toilet, and telephone. Each time you are moving from one activity to the next, drinking tea or coffee, using the bathroom, or checking your phone, take a couple deep breaths and come back to the present moment.

    Breathe whenever you can. Breathing is a key mindfulness practice because it is something we always do out of necessity, and it’s also a good way to bring our awareness back to the here and now. Taking three or four deep breaths (and paying attention to them) at any given moment can help you calm down and focus.

    Ground yourself physically. If concentrating on your breathing isn’t quite enough, sit down and notice how the chair feels under your body. Put your hands flat on the counter or a table, and notice how the hard, cool surface feels. Keep a small stone handy and run your fingers across it. These and similar actions will bring your awareness into the present.

    As you practice moments of mindfulness on a regular basis, you will notice that they come more naturally and easily to you. You’ll be more likely to slow down at critical moments in the day, and you’ll find it much easier to take a few deep breaths so you can respond thoughtfully rather than react hastily to a fussy child or difficult colleague.

    Don’t get me wrong – you’ll still forget to be mindful more often than you’d like, and you’ll still have moments that you wish you had handled differently. But you’ll also be able to get back on track more quickly and let go more easily than before.

    Let me know which other mindful practices work for you. Need help implementing these tips. Let me know. 🙂

    krumike replied 3 years, 9 months ago 1 Member · 0 Replies
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